By Rissa Singson Kawpeng
National Bestselling Author of Confessions of an Impatient Bride

If you think you can’t get past that break up, then you have to think again.

I started dating at the age of 33.

I was brokenhearted at the age of 35.

I got married at the age of 38.

At the age when many of my classmates were already sending their kids to high school, I had my first-ever boyfriend. It was a heady and romantic time but the relationship started to zoom downhill before we could even celebrate our first year anniversary.

But then came along what I call the “man beyond my dreams.” He was everything I had been asking the Lord for — and so much more!

But just when we were beginning to browse through wedding magazines and talking about where our fancy reception will be, a small, meaningless fight triggered a disastrous breakup. My heart detonated into a thousand and one pieces.

I couldn’t get back on my feet. Literally.

For days, I buried myself in bed, unable to get up and face a new day.
For months, my long face dragged on the floor behind me wherever I went, afraid of what the future held in store for me.



Celibate for the rest of my life.

I wanted to scream to heaven, “But I want to get married, Lord!”

Still, the facts were staring me straight to the face.

At 35, what were my chances? Besides where would I find eligible men? By this time, the crop of men in my age range would either be “leftovers” — you know, the ones you wouldn’t want to marry anyway — or gays.

Sigh. I surrendered myself to serving the Lord through a life of single blessedness.


When my ex and I broke up, I fell into depression.

I didn’t want to get out of my bed.

I didn’t want to talk to people.

I just wanted to lock myself in my room and marinate in my misery.

I didn’t want to try anymore.

I totally, completely surrendered myself to Jesus.

But on Valentine’s Day in 2005, just when terrorists were bombing some buses on EDSA in Makati, a different kind of explosion was happening in Pasig. I was on a first date with a good-looking, never-been-married, gem-of-a-straight guy who would meet me down the aisle of Santuario de San Jose church two and a half years later.

But wait, I’m getting ahead of my story.

How was I able to go from brokenhearted to wholehearted?

How do you actually move on after your heart has been broken into a thousand pieces?

It’s hard. It really is.

But it’s possible.


Are you broken-hearted right now?

Are you totally devastated because your heart was broken by the man whom you thought was The One?

That’s alright.

Your pain is valid.

Your pain matters.

Your pain has a purpose.

But it’s hard to see that purpose when right now all you want to do is to buy a gallon of ice cream and binge-watch KDramas or RomComs on Netflix.

You have to give yourself the time to grieve.

But you also have to give yourself the chance to heal.


I was able to piece my heart back together. It’s time for you piece back yours.

A lot of my women always come up to me with their own successful stories about finding their One True Love.

But a lot of them also come up to me with stories of heartache and heartbreak.

This is why this year, instead of running my annual Bridal Shower workshop, I want to focus on healing. On mending. On becoming whole again.

Let me help you.

I’m inviting you to join me in

WHOLEHEARTED, a 90-Day Program to Help You Move On from the Breakup

This workshop is different from all the other workshops I’ve run before.

Instead of teaching you how to find The One, I’ll teach you first how to heal, so you can become The One.
As an exclusive member of The OTL Wholehearted Program, we’ll throw you a load of resources for the next three months that will help you move on from your heartbreak.

Every month you’ll join me for an exclusive gathering together with a select group of people who will join you as you journey into becoming whole again.

These are the amazing perks you’ll receive in our monthly meetings as an OTL Wholehearted member:

What’s Your Investment for New Beginning?

I’ve talked to girls about how they deal with break-ups.

A majority of them would immediately go to a salon for a make over. This costs about P2000 up to P10,000 (I’m not kidding!)

Some of them would impulsively enroll in gym memberships, which they don’t use because somewhere down the line they realize that they don’t actually want to be fit and healthy; they initially just want to have that ideal ‘revenge body’. This costs about P3000-P5000/month.

Some girls would go for a total style overhaul. A new wardrobe that would compliment that “new you” would cost about P2000-P5000 or even more.

Look. I’m not saying that doing all these things are wrong, or bad for you. In fact, if they actually help you move on from your break up, then go ahead!

But how many of you are doing these things as a way to make yourself happy and heal your heart, and how many of you are merely doing these things to cover up a huge hole in your broken heart?

I was just thinking how blessed you are as an OTL member. Because instead of paying lots of money on stuff you think would help you move on, you’re investing it into a program that would help you heal, introduce you to new friends, and help you write a better love story in the future.

In the OTL Wholehearted, your membership fee is P4,000.00 ONLY per session.

But here’s the good news: You’ll get in at P2975 ONLY per session, which, I repeat, is absolutely NOTHING compared to the emotional, mental, spiritual pain you will go through if you do not take charge of your healing right now.

“Totally Satisfied” Guarantee — Or Every Centavo Is Returned to You

This comes with a 100% Guarantee. After our first session, if you think this coaching program is not worth your time or money, just tell us, and we’ll return every centavo of your OTL Wholehearted membership fee, no questions asked, no hard feelings. We want to completely help you in anyway we can. If you didn’t feel helped, then that’s our fault, and we don’t deserve your fees. I will insist that you get it back.

Time Is Ticking... You Have to Act Now!

If this excites you, then don’t delay. You need to sign up now because this unprecedented coaching program starts on October 28, 2017.

Don’t let this rare chance pass you by!

To sign up and change your future, click the link below…

Yes, Rissa. I want to be wholehearted again. Sign me up for the OTL Wholehearted program.


Rissa Singson-Kawpeng

P.S. Be an OTL Wholehearted member today and take your healing one step further! To join this life-changing experience, click the link below:

Yes, Rissa. I want to be wholehearted again. Sign me up for the OTL Wholehearted program.

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